{"id":3964,"date":"2013-06-27T14:39:43","date_gmt":"2013-06-27T14:39:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.genealogybank.com\/?p=3964"},"modified":"2013-06-27T14:39:43","modified_gmt":"2013-06-27T14:39:43","slug":"marriage-by-proxy-more-stories-of-attendance-from-afar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/marriage-by-proxy-more-stories-of-attendance-from-afar.html","title":{"rendered":"Marriage by Proxy &#038; More Stories of Attendance from Afar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Every now and then you run across an interesting <a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/explore\/newspapers\/marriage-records\">marriage announcement<\/a> in old newspapers about someone who couldn\u2019t travel to a wedding\u2014so they attended by proxy.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/attendance_married_by_proxy.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3965\" title=\"Attendance Married by Proxy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/attendance_married_by_proxy.png\" alt=\"Attendance Married by Proxy\" width=\"975\" height=\"735\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/attendance_married_by_proxy.png 975w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/attendance_married_by_proxy-300x226.png 300w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/attendance_married_by_proxy-397x300.png 397w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 975px) 100vw, 975px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I once read about Mark Twain and his wife attending the funeral of his mother in law\u2014by listening to it over the telephone 450 miles away!<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_3966\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3966\" style=\"width: 888px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/mark-twain-funeral-by-proxy-dailyinter-ocean-01121891.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-3966\" title=\"Mark Twain Funeral by Proxy Newspaper Clip Daily Inter Ocean\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/mark-twain-funeral-by-proxy-dailyinter-ocean-01121891.png\" alt=\"Mark Twain Funeral by Proxy Newspaper Clip Daily Inter Ocean\" width=\"888\" height=\"486\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/mark-twain-funeral-by-proxy-dailyinter-ocean-01121891.png 888w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/mark-twain-funeral-by-proxy-dailyinter-ocean-01121891-300x164.png 300w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/mark-twain-funeral-by-proxy-dailyinter-ocean-01121891-500x273.png 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 888px) 100vw, 888px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3966\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Daily Inter Ocean (Chicago, Illinois), 12 January 1891, page 2.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>It seems that proxy weddings were common on the island of Curacao\u2014at least for Luis O. Negron. Although not married himself, Negron participated in five proxy weddings there on the island.<\/p>\n<p>In one instance, a Mr. Lieder in New York needed to return to Curacao to marry his bride-to-be, Miss Armajo, who was also from his native Curacao. However, Mr. Lieder could not leave New York at the time of the wedding. So on 25 June 1902 they were married\u2014using a proxy stand-in husband. Apparently the bride\u2019s brother-in-law, Luis O. Negron, had plenty of experience with proxy marriages!<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_3967\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3967\" style=\"width: 505px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Married-By-Proxy-Charlotte-Observer-07071902.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-3967\" title=\"Married By Proxy Charlotte Observer July 2, 1902\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Married-By-Proxy-Charlotte-Observer-07071902.png\" alt=\"Married By Proxy Charlotte Observer July 2, 1902\" width=\"505\" height=\"883\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Married-By-Proxy-Charlotte-Observer-07071902.png 505w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Married-By-Proxy-Charlotte-Observer-07071902-171x300.png 171w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 505px) 100vw, 505px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3967\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Charlotte Observer (Charlotte, North Carolina), 7 July 1902, page 1.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Every now and then you run across an interesting marriage announcement in old newspapers about someone who couldn\u2019t travel to a wedding\u2014so they attended by proxy. I once read about Mark Twain and his wife attending the funeral of his mother in law\u2014by listening to it over the telephone 450 miles away! 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