{"id":6191,"date":"2014-02-13T16:31:44","date_gmt":"2014-02-13T16:31:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.genealogybank.com\/?p=6191"},"modified":"2025-02-13T11:58:48","modified_gmt":"2025-02-13T16:58:48","slug":"valentines-day-history-a-look-back-at-old-love-poems-more","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/valentines-day-history-a-look-back-at-old-love-poems-more.html","title":{"rendered":"Valentine\u2019s Day History: A Look Back at Old Love Poems &#038; More"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><em>Introduction<\/em><\/strong><em>: In this article, Mary Harrell-Sesniak searches through old newspapers to find valentine poems and other romantic messages from Valentine\u2019s Day celebrations of the past. Mary is a genealogist, author and editor with a strong technology background.<br \/>\n<\/em><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6192\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6192\" style=\"width: 548px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/illustration-0213-2014-to-my-valentine.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6192\" title=\"illustration-0213-2014-to-my-valentine\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/illustration-0213-2014-to-my-valentine.png\" alt=\"an 1890 Valentine Day's card\" width=\"548\" height=\"475\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/illustration-0213-2014-to-my-valentine.png 548w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/illustration-0213-2014-to-my-valentine-300x260.png 300w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/illustration-0213-2014-to-my-valentine-346x300.png 346w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 548px) 100vw, 548px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6192\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Illustration: \u201cTo My Valentine,\u201d 1890. Credit: Library of Congress, Prints and Photographs Division.<br \/>http:\/\/www.loc.gov\/pictures\/item\/2010645777\/<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Ask any child if they know a valentine poem, and they\u2019re likely to recite this couplet:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Roses are red,<br \/>\nViolets are blue.<br \/>\nSugar is sweet,<br \/>\nAnd so are you.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Love Poem History in Newspapers<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you research early newspapers, such as the online collection in GenealogyBank\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/explore\/newspapers\/all\">Historical Newspaper Archives<\/a>, you\u2019ll discover quaint \u201cRoses are red\u201d valentine traditions\u2014along with many variations on the theme. Many of these old love poems have delighted children and amorous suitors for a very long time.<\/p>\n<p>One of the earliest \u201cRoses are red\u201d newspaper references was in this 1874 review of <em>Fantoccini<\/em>, a book fashioned after a puppet show by the same name.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6193\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6193\" style=\"width: 387px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/springfield-republican-newspaper-0901-1874-fantoccini-review.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6193\" title=\"springfield-republican-newspaper-0901-1874-fantoccini-review\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/springfield-republican-newspaper-0901-1874-fantoccini-review.png\" alt=\"a review of the book &quot;Fantoccini,&quot; Springfield Republican newspaper article 1 September 1874\" width=\"387\" height=\"598\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/springfield-republican-newspaper-0901-1874-fantoccini-review.png 387w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/springfield-republican-newspaper-0901-1874-fantoccini-review-194x300.png 194w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 387px) 100vw, 387px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6193\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Springfield Republican (Springfield, Massachusetts), 1 September 1874, page 3<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Roses Are Red Alice<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The author of this newspaper article panned <em>Fantoccini<\/em> for mimicking the \u201cAlice\u201d books, and criticized this version of \u201cRoses are red\u201d as an example of how \u201cany number of well-meaning idiots have been moved to think that they could do as well\u201d as the <em>Alice in Wonderland<\/em> books.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Roses are red<br \/>\nDiddle, diddle,<br \/>\nViolets are blue;<br \/>\nYou love not me,<br \/>\nDiddle, diddle,<br \/>\nThough I love you.<br \/>\nCould them three flowers<br \/>\nDiddle, diddle,<br \/>\nAlter their dyes,<br \/>\nThen might we love<br \/>\nDiddle, diddle,<br \/>\nContrariwise.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Turn of the 19th Century Valentine\u2019s Day Trends<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>An 1899 Valentine\u2019s Day trend was to send a valentine with a small object attached. One such Valentine\u2019s Day card had an artificial violet and featured this poem:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Roses are red, violets are blue;<br \/>\nSugar is sweet and so are you.<br \/>\nSo please accept this small bouquet<br \/>\nThat I have picked for you today.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6194\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6194\" style=\"width: 444px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/evening-star-newspaper-0211-1899-valentines.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6194\" title=\"evening-star-newspaper-0211-1899-valentines\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/evening-star-newspaper-0211-1899-valentines.png\" alt=\"article about Valentine's Day cards, Evening Star newspaper article 11 February 1899\" width=\"444\" height=\"358\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/evening-star-newspaper-0211-1899-valentines.png 444w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/evening-star-newspaper-0211-1899-valentines-300x241.png 300w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/evening-star-newspaper-0211-1899-valentines-372x300.png 372w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 444px) 100vw, 444px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6194\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Evening Star (Washington, D.C.), 11 February 1899, page 2<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>As cards became commercialized, shop clerks often assisted shoppers in their frantic searches for the perfect valentine card. These clerks were often amused at the suitors\u2019 choices, as not everyone chose wisely!<\/p>\n<p>In 1907, a sentimental young man purchased a valentine with this plea:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Come rest in my bosom my own stricken deer.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I hope his love interest fell for that line, although he might have been better off with this fashionable seller of the day:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The light that lies in woman\u2019s eyes has been my heart\u2019s undoing.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>As this article notes, the old favorite was also offered on 1907 cards:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Roses are red,<br \/>\nViolets are blue;<br \/>\nSugar is sweet,<br \/>\nAnd so are you.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6195\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6195\" style=\"width: 269px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/omaha-world-herald-newspaper-0214-1907-valentine-cards.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6195\" title=\"omaha-world-herald-newspaper-0214-1907-valentine-cards\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/omaha-world-herald-newspaper-0214-1907-valentine-cards.png\" alt=\"article about Valentine's Day cards, Omaha World Herald newspaper article 14 February 1907\" width=\"269\" height=\"272\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6195\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Omaha World Herald (Omaha, Nebraska), 14 February 1907, page 4<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Anonymous Valentine Admirers <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Have you ever sent or received an anonymous Valentine\u2019s Day card?<\/p>\n<p>In 1909, valentines overwhelmed the mail carriers, but \u201ccupids\u201d were also prone to depositing a card at a young woman\u2019s door, ringing the bell and then fleeing off into the darkness before being discovered.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6196\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6196\" style=\"width: 405px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/evansville-courier-and-press-newspaper-0214-1909-valentines.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6196\" title=\"evansville-courier-and-press-newspaper-0214-1909-valentines\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/evansville-courier-and-press-newspaper-0214-1909-valentines.png\" alt=\"Valentines--Yes, Thousands of Them, Evansville Courier and Press newspaper article 14 February 1909\" width=\"405\" height=\"519\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/evansville-courier-and-press-newspaper-0214-1909-valentines.png 405w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/evansville-courier-and-press-newspaper-0214-1909-valentines-234x300.png 234w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 405px) 100vw, 405px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6196\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Evansville Courier and Press (Evansville, Indiana), 14 February 1909, page 2<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Valentine Telegrams <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There once were even valentine telegrams\u2014certainly a relic of the past to any of today\u2019s youth.<\/p>\n<p>Western Union used to offer suggestions as to what to write. Many valentine poems and sayings reflected the era they were written in, such as these hipster valentine telegrams from 1954. These messages were always printed in upper case, as that was the only typeface option available for telegrams:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cMY HEART\u2019S A-FIRE. FOR YOU I PINE. SAY YES-YES-YES MY VALENTINE.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cROSES ARE RED, VIOLETS ARE BLUE: THERE\u2019S NO ONE ELSE BUT YOU-YOU-YOU.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cMAN, YOU\u2019RE GROOVY, CHICK O\u2019MINE: BE MY REAL COOL VALENTINE.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cLET IT RAIN. LET IT DRIZZLE. KISS ME, BABE, AND HEAR ME SIZZLE.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6197\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6197\" style=\"width: 364px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/oregonian-newspaper-0212-1954-valentine-telegrams.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6197\" title=\"oregonian-newspaper-0212-1954-valentine-telegrams\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/oregonian-newspaper-0212-1954-valentine-telegrams.png\" alt=\"article about Valentine's Day telegrams, Oregonian newspaper article 12 February 1954\" width=\"364\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/oregonian-newspaper-0212-1954-valentine-telegrams.png 364w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/oregonian-newspaper-0212-1954-valentine-telegrams-217x300.png 217w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 364px) 100vw, 364px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6197\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Oregonian (Portland, Oregon), 12 February 1954, page 15<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Then of course there were singing telegrams that suitors could use to woo their valentines, which, according to this 1938 Texas newspaper article, originated in New York. Popular for multiple holidays, the telegraph company accommodated special requests\u2014including special tunes and parodies.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6198\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6198\" style=\"width: 778px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/heraldo-de-brownsville-newspaper-0831-1938-singing-telegrams.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6198\" title=\"heraldo-de-brownsville-newspaper-0831-1938-singing-telegrams\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/heraldo-de-brownsville-newspaper-0831-1938-singing-telegrams.png\" alt=\"article about singing telegrams, Heraldo de Brownsville newspaper article 31 August 1938\" width=\"778\" height=\"401\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/heraldo-de-brownsville-newspaper-0831-1938-singing-telegrams.png 778w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/heraldo-de-brownsville-newspaper-0831-1938-singing-telegrams-300x154.png 300w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/heraldo-de-brownsville-newspaper-0831-1938-singing-telegrams-500x257.png 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 778px) 100vw, 778px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6198\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Heraldo de Brownsville (Brownsville, Texas), 31 August 1938, page 3<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Valentine Newspaper Advertisements<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Was your family particularly romantic on Valentine\u2019s Day? If so, see if they may have placed valentine advertisements in newspapers. Search your hometown papers, but remember to be creative, as the suitors rarely used their full names!<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6199\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6199\" style=\"width: 419px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/springfield-union-newspaper-0214-1983-valentine-ads.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6199\" title=\"springfield-union-newspaper-0214-1983-valentine-ads\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/springfield-union-newspaper-0214-1983-valentine-ads.png\" alt=\"Valentine's Day newspaper ads, Springfield Union newspaper advertisements 14 February 1983\" width=\"419\" height=\"314\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/springfield-union-newspaper-0214-1983-valentine-ads.png 419w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/springfield-union-newspaper-0214-1983-valentine-ads-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/springfield-union-newspaper-0214-1983-valentine-ads-400x300.png 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 419px) 100vw, 419px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6199\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Springfield Union (Springfield, Massachusetts), 14 February 1983, page 25<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Romantic Ideas &amp; Inspiration<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re feeling like \u201cRoses are red, Violets are blue\u201d doesn&#8217;t express the perfect sentiment for your sweetheart, you can always find inspiration by searching old newspapers for romantic poetry.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6200\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6200\" style=\"width: 559px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/dallas-morning-news-newspaper-0214-1984-valentine-poem.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6200\" title=\"dallas-morning-news-newspaper-0214-1984-valentine-poem\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/dallas-morning-news-newspaper-0214-1984-valentine-poem.png\" alt=\"Valentine's Day poem, Dallas Morning News newspaper article 14 February 1984\" width=\"559\" height=\"173\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/dallas-morning-news-newspaper-0214-1984-valentine-poem.png 559w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/dallas-morning-news-newspaper-0214-1984-valentine-poem-300x92.png 300w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/dallas-morning-news-newspaper-0214-1984-valentine-poem-500x154.png 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 559px) 100vw, 559px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6200\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Dallas Morning News (Dallas, Texas), 14 February 1984, page C2<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>That reference to \u201cElizabeth Barrett\u201d reminds me of one of my favorite love poems of all time: this timeless verse by Elizabeth Barrett Browning.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6201\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6201\" style=\"width: 646px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/springfield-republican-newspaper-0716-1874-browning-sonnet.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6201\" title=\"springfield-republican-newspaper-0716-1874-browning-sonnet\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/springfield-republican-newspaper-0716-1874-browning-sonnet.png\" alt=\"sonnet by Elizabeth Barrett Browning, Springfield Republican newspaper article 16 July 1874\" width=\"646\" height=\"449\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/springfield-republican-newspaper-0716-1874-browning-sonnet.png 646w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/springfield-republican-newspaper-0716-1874-browning-sonnet-300x208.png 300w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/springfield-republican-newspaper-0716-1874-browning-sonnet-431x300.png 431w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 646px) 100vw, 646px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6201\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Springfield Republican (Springfield, Massachusetts), 16 July 1874, page 3<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Happy Valentine\u2019s Day everyone!<\/p>\n<p>Explore over 330 years of newspapers and historical records in GenealogyBank. Discover your family story! <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.genealogybank.com\/sign-up\">Start a 7-Day Free Trial<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mary Harrell-Sesniak searches through old newspapers to find valentine poems and other romantic messages from Valentine\u2019s Day celebrations of the past.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":101904,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12703],"tags":[3253,6384],"class_list":["post-6191","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-holidays","tag-valentines-day-2","tag-valentines-day-cards"],"acf":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/photo-0214-2018-featured-graphic-valentine.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6191","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6191"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6191\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":101905,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6191\/revisions\/101905"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/101904"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6191"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6191"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6191"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}