{"id":78605,"date":"2021-06-07T12:51:48","date_gmt":"2021-06-07T16:51:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.genealogybank.com\/?p=78605"},"modified":"2021-10-21T13:57:32","modified_gmt":"2021-10-21T17:57:32","slug":"genealogy-dilemma-the-problem-with-cemeteries","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/genealogy-dilemma-the-problem-with-cemeteries.html","title":{"rendered":"Genealogy Dilemma: The Problem with Cemeteries"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><em>Introduction:<\/em><\/strong><em> In this article, Gena Philibert-Ortega writes about problems trying to find your ancestor\u2019s burial site, and gives tips on how to proceed. Gena is a genealogist and author of the book \u201cFrom the Family Kitchen.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Many family historians are surprised when they can\u2019t find an ancestor\u2019s burial. Cemeteries are a favorite destination for family historians, and it can be quite disappointing not to find an ancestor\u2019s final resting place. Having written a book about cemeteries and having visited cemeteries in various states, it\u2019s obvious to me why burials sometimes don\u2019t exist. Unfortunately, there are ancestors whom you will never find burial information for. Why? To understand that answer you need to consider the problems with cemeteries and burials.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_78609\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-78609\" style=\"width: 706px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/photo-0607-2021-damaged-gravestone.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-78609\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/photo-0607-2021-damaged-gravestone.jpg\" alt=\"Photo: damaged gravestone in Oakwood Cemetery, Denton, Texas\" width=\"706\" height=\"581\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/photo-0607-2021-damaged-gravestone.jpg 706w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/photo-0607-2021-damaged-gravestone-300x247.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 706px) 100vw, 706px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-78609\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo: damaged gravestone in Oakwood Cemetery, Denton, Texas. Credit: Gena Philibert-Ortega.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>The Problem with Cemeteries<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In the United States, depending on the time period you are researching, a burial may not be in what we tend to think of as a cemetery, but rather a plot of land on what was then a family farm (our family\u2019s or a neighbor\u2019s). Over time that land may have been repurposed or forgotten.<\/p>\n<p>In addition, not everyone was deemed \u201cworthy\u201d of burial in a local cemetery. Various ethnic and religious groups may have not been welcome in the \u201ccity\u201d cemetery and thus were buried in a separate cemetery that has been forgotten over time. Some other groups of people, because of occupation or life choices, may not have been welcome in a cemetery \u2013 such as prostitutes in a mining community.<\/p>\n<p>Assuming first that your ancestor was buried on land that was designated as a cemetery (and not at sea, for example), there can be various problems with cemeteries, including:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cemeteries do not \u201clast\u201d over time.<\/strong> Cemeteries may disappear because of \u201cprogress\u201d (housing, retail spaces, flooded land, etc.). I have ancestors that are now underwater because of flooding, an ancestral family plot that is under a golf course in North Carolina, and family that was exhumed and reburied in the 20th century when San Francisco decided they needed the land for the living more than the deceased. It\u2019s also not unusual to find that a cemetery has been repurposed as a \u201cpioneer park\u201d or other community recreation site. In one Southern California town, the cemetery is now a park and all of the tombstones are stacked behind a government building.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<figure id=\"attachment_78613\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-78613\" style=\"width: 967px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/doc\/newspapers\/image\/v2%3A1508AFD0E83DBED6%40GB3NEWS-1752B9C5C0A66B64%402457433-1752B8EB9389615F%40101-1752B8EB9389615F\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-78613\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/las-vegas-review-journal-newspaper-0214-2016-colma-cemeteries.jpg\" alt=\"An article about cemeteries in Colma, California, Las Vegas Review-Journal newspaper article 14 February 2016\" width=\"967\" height=\"702\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/las-vegas-review-journal-newspaper-0214-2016-colma-cemeteries.jpg 967w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/las-vegas-review-journal-newspaper-0214-2016-colma-cemeteries-300x218.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/las-vegas-review-journal-newspaper-0214-2016-colma-cemeteries-768x558.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 967px) 100vw, 967px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-78613\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Las Vegas Review-Journal (Las Vegas, Nevada), 14 February 2016, page 102<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cemeteries may now be on private property<\/strong>. It\u2019s possible that the land your ancestors were buried on was at one time family land but now is private property, and access may be denied or limited.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cemeteries are not always respected.<\/strong> In some cases, a cemetery may have been desecrated by a property owner, local community, or other groups because of the lack of respect, historically, people have had for cemeteries.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>The Problem with Grave Markers<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>To a genealogist, a grave marker with several clues to our ancestor\u2019s life is a treasure \u2013 but I count myself extremely fortunate when I can find such a marker because in some cases it can be rare. Why? Consider the following reasons:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Grave was never marked.<\/strong> Not everyone had a marker, and if the cemetery records aren\u2019t extant, you may not be able to find out if your ancestor was buried there or not. It\u2019s important to remember a grave may not have been marked for a variety of reasons including cost, no family survivors, or death in a faraway location.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<figure id=\"attachment_78617\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-78617\" style=\"width: 893px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/doc\/newspapers\/image\/v2%3A11CE74B6F9A6E5CC%40GB3NEWS-12427162FA7AC788%402414419-1242716326EB2668%401-1242716448E311F8\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-78617\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/boston-journal-newspaper-0509-1898-unmarked-graves.jpg\" alt=\"An article about unmarked graves, Boston Journal newspaper article 9 May 1898\" width=\"893\" height=\"582\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/boston-journal-newspaper-0509-1898-unmarked-graves.jpg 893w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/boston-journal-newspaper-0509-1898-unmarked-graves-300x196.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/boston-journal-newspaper-0509-1898-unmarked-graves-768x501.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 893px) 100vw, 893px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-78617\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Boston Journal (Boston, Massachusetts), 9 May 1898, page 2<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>War fatalities.<\/strong> Unknown soldier burials. In the case of Civil War soldiers (and even earlier wars), they may have died without identification, so their burial is under a marker that simply reads \u201cUnknown U.S. Soldier.\u201d Other circumstances in earlier and later wars can also result in no marked final resting place for a soldier or a sailor.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Disasters and pandemics.<\/strong> When the loss of life is large, the dead may be buried together in a common grave. The place may be marked, but it may lack a list of everyone buried therein.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Poverty.<\/strong> Your ancestor may have been buried in a potter\u2019s field with or without a marker. In some cases the cemetery may have a list of those burials, but they may not be marked.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<figure id=\"attachment_78619\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-78619\" style=\"width: 1280px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/doc\/newspapers\/image\/v2%3A122AFBBA107AC9E4%40GB3NEWS-125B432B4AFCD9F6%402414894-125AD91348B37186%4023-138DC9261FE5168D\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-78619\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/plain-dealer-newspaper-0827-1899-potters-field.jpg\" alt=\"An article about cemeteries, Plain Dealer newspaper article 27 August 1899\" width=\"1280\" height=\"663\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/plain-dealer-newspaper-0827-1899-potters-field.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/plain-dealer-newspaper-0827-1899-potters-field-300x155.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/plain-dealer-newspaper-0827-1899-potters-field-1024x530.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/plain-dealer-newspaper-0827-1899-potters-field-768x398.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-78619\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Plain Dealer (Cleveland, Ohio), 27 August 1899, page 24<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Death in an institution.<\/strong> An ancestor who died in an institution such as an asylum or prison may have been buried in that institution\u2019s cemetery. It\u2019s not uncommon for those burials to have a marker identifying the person with a number instead of a name. In one institution I researched, the unclaimed dead were donated to the local teaching hospital and then later cremated and scattered, resulting in no marked burial.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Grave was marked with a wooden marker.<\/strong> Some materials don\u2019t hold up over time, and wooden markers are a good example of this. Over time the writing on them disappears, and eventually the wood itself.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Grave marker was stolen or metal parts of it were stolen.<\/strong> Whole markers or metal parts of markers are sometimes stolen. In the case of metal, it\u2019s not unusual to have those parts brought to a metal recycler for money. I\u2019ve seen markers where those metal portions are the pieces that can have the identifying information. In either case, it results in either an unmarked grave or a poorly marked one.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Exposure to the elements.<\/strong> Over time markers can become worn due to being made of a softer stone, breakage, or even the growth of lichens or other natural materials obscuring writing or otherwise destroying the marker altogether.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cremation.<\/strong> The first crematorium in the United States was built in 1876 in Washington, Pennsylvania. A second one followed in 1884.* Not everyone who has been cremated has a marked burial place. In some cases, the ashes may have been scattered in a natural area, in the ocean or a lake, or maybe just never buried.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Now What?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So, you can\u2019t find your ancestor\u2019s burial. I know how frustrating that can be. As researchers it leaves us with a lot of unanswered questions. I have an ancestor and his daughter that most likely are buried on the land his family owned. However, today the land is thick with trees and the present owner has never seen graves on the land. Most likely those burials are now unmarked for whatever reason and the land obscured. We have one clue that they are buried there but no photographic evidence, and most likely we never will.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_78623\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-78623\" style=\"width: 746px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/photo-0607-2021-buried-gravestone.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-78623\" src=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/photo-0607-2021-buried-gravestone.jpg\" alt=\"Photo: buried gravestone in Oakwood Cemetery, Denton, Texas\" width=\"746\" height=\"575\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/photo-0607-2021-buried-gravestone.jpg 746w, https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/photo-0607-2021-buried-gravestone-300x231.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 746px) 100vw, 746px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-78623\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo: buried gravestone in Oakwood Cemetery, Denton, Texas. Credit: Gena Philibert-Ortega.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>So, how can you do an exhaustive search when you can\u2019t find your ancestor\u2019s burial?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Seek out local histories to determine possible local burial places for the time and place of your ancestor.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>See if you can find archival collections left behind by the ancestor\u2019s FAN Club (Friends, Associates, and Neighbors) that might mention your family or even attending the funeral.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Read historical newspapers for mentions of burials during that time period.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Finally, keep checking back. There\u2019s always a chance that new information will come online or a diary will be donated to an archive that provides the answers you need.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Finding an ancestor\u2019s burial may seem easy, but there are all kinds of factors that may make it impossible. However, make sure to conduct an exhaustive search so that you know you have in fact looked \u201ceverywhere.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>* \u201cHistory of Cremation,\u201d Cremation Association of North America<\/p>\n<p><strong>Related Articles:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.genealogybank.com\/3-genealogy-tips-for-cemetery-research.html\">3 Genealogy Tips for Cemetery Research<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.genealogybank.com\/genealogy-101-13-planning-a-research-trip-to-the-cemetery.html\">Genealogy 101: Planning a Research Trip to the Cemetery<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.genealogybank.com\/genealogy-tips-debunking-myths-about-cemetery-research.html\">Genealogy Tips: Debunking Myths about Cemetery Research<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.genealogybank.com\/its-not-all-online-cemetery-research.html\">It\u2019s Not All Online: Cemetery Research<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In this article, Gena Philibert-Ortega writes about problems trying to find your ancestor\u2019s burial site, and gives tips on how to proceed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":78631,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12713],"tags":[2585,12,2719,2020],"class_list":["post-78605","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genealogy-research-tips","tag-cemeteries","tag-genealogy","tag-genealogy-search-tips","tag-newspaper-archives"],"acf":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/photo-0607-2021-featured-graphic-wooden-grave-marker.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78605","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=78605"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78605\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":81111,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78605\/revisions\/81111"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/78631"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=78605"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=78605"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogybank.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=78605"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}